Sex Analogy and Nature's Control

After reading Morgan Brown's post about the analogy between sex and nature's control, I decided I wanted to write a more in depth response. The action of having sex leads to the creation of a child, and nature controls the biological process of the child actually being created. It is true that human's experience uncontrolled chemical reactions, creating desire and etc by instinct. However, I do believe we as humans have the ability to initiate these chemical reactions in others by our actions and behaviors, and it is not completely up to nature, and chance. Humans are instinctively a tribal species. By aligning ourselves with others, it increases our chances of surviving, and replicating, the two ultimate goals of life. Thus, it is not a surprise that when selecting a potential mate, we look for someone with a high survival and replication value. Males tend to have the highest survival values, and females, the highest replication value. As humans, we have the ability to live our lives in ways that portray us as having high S and R values, or low S and R's. The path we choose to take is by choice, which acts as an example for the control we have over nature, and the natural process of reproduction. I think this demonstrates that we are not just pawns in a game nature is playing. I also would argue this shows why we are considered the dominate species. We have a control over something in ways no other animals do, making us superior?